This journey is going to be as easy, or as hard as I make it. As everything in life has two sides of varying degrees. What I mean by that is take emotions. We have positive and negative emotions. Not all emotions are the same they vary, just like everything else in life. Just like every thought and action.
If we want Happiness we need to go out and discover who we are. As without that how do we know what our happiness is. If your not going to be happy then why stay where you are living a life you don't want. All that does is waste time and energy.